Glossary and Tips to Meet an Escort

6969 sex position or slang for oral sex performed by two people on each other, simultaneous fellatio and cunnilingus. Can be practised by M+M, M+F or F+F. Called "69" due to the shape of the two numerals, which suggests the sex act. Expl of F+F: the two girls were in a 69, licking each other's pussies. OR expl. of M+F: when a girl is sucking on your cock while u are upside down eating her pussy.
A-levelA-level is a slang for anal sex. Also called “Greek”. Just Anal work or A-level is a word often used for anal sex. This phrase is often used in the porn industry for scenes where the male actors penetrate with their penis into the actress' anus. Also our days it's used in high end escort talk for anal sex. Anal intercourse, sometimes optional.
A-rimmingA-rimming or Anal rimming or also can be AR - is oral stimulation of anus. Some escorts will allow you to do this to them, but only far fewer will do it to you. SO to be more clear is slang means someone is licking an other persons ass and anus.
All Kind of fantasiesAll Kind of fantasies
Ball Licking and SuckingBall Licking and Sucking
BBBJBare Back Blow Job (oral sex without condom)
BBWBig Beautiful Woman = BBW. A word of slang that fat chicks use as a euphemism for fat.
BDSMBondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. A form of sex play or role-play which combines Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS) and Sadomasochism (SM). A catch-all term for a broad array of sexual practices, especially involving restraint and inflicting pain. Mostly disapproved by escorts. An overlapping abbrevation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM).
BondageBondage
Brown showerBrown shower
BukkakeBukkake is phrase when several men are masturbating and ejaculating on a single woman. The phrase comes from an old Japanese tradition. The number of men can very from a few to a few hundred, to goal is to ejaculate as much as possible.
Candle playCandle play
CIFCum on Face, Cum in Face or more clear is that this slang for ejaculating on someone's face.
CIMCome in mouth. This may or may not be followed by the swallowing of the cum. CIM stands for cum in mouth, when a man can ejaculate into a woman's mouth. Usually this is an extra when we are talking about escort girls.
COBCome On Body = COB stands for cum on body, when a man ejaculates on the woman's body.
Company for dinnerCompany for dinner
Deep throatDeep throat or just DT is when a girl is giving a blowjob and the guy puts most of his dick into the girls mouth. The dick touches the throat, and often makes girls gag. So someone can put deep in her throat a dick while sucking or giving a blowjob.
DFKDeep French Kissing
Different PositionsSex in different positions
Dildo PlayDildo play - sex toys
DirtytalkDirty talks
Doggy styleA man positions himself behind his partner. She's usually bending over something, or on her hands and knees. The guy can then pull her hair, and use her boobies for handles.
DominationDomination
Domination lightDomination light
Double PenetrationWhen a woman of the female sex has two penises inserted any combo of her mouth, anus, or vagina, but is most commonly done in the anus and vagina.
Erotic massageErotic massage or sensuous massage is the use of massage techniques by a person on another person's erogenous zones to achieve or enhance their sexual excitation or arousal. And Happy Ending :)
ExtraBallExtraBall = Multiple times sex and means that a client can have multiple orgasms and sexual action with an escort girl during the hours he payed.
FacesittingFace sitting is when one person sits on another person's face.
FacialSexual act in which man-juice is spewed unto a girl's face.
FetishSexual fetishism or erotic fetishism is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish; the person who has a fetish for that object/situation is a fetishist.
FingeringFingering is the manual (genital) manipulation of the clitoris or other parts of the vulva, the vagina, the foreskin, or the anus for the purpose of sexual arousal and other sexual stimulation.
FistingThe act or art of putting a fist in an ass or vigina, very popular practice among more evolved(kinky)gays. requires great care and huge amounts of lubrication.
Foot fetishFoot fetish means when someone has to play with the partner's feet to induce sexual excitement and satisfaction. Escorts are often asked to do foot job for clients who are foot fetishists.
French kissingYou and your partner putting your tongue in each others mouth and moving it around with your lips locked when you kissing.
Gang BangWhen multiple partners, usually 3 or more, have sex with a single partner.
GFEGirl Friend Experience. Escort made it feel like she was your girlfriend.
Golden showerGolden Shower also know as GS and means that the sexual excitement is associated with urination, so the escort girl must urinate/pee on the ground, bed or even on the client's body.
Golden Shower GivingWhen partner pissing on partner.
Group sexGroup sex
Hair pullingHair pulling
Hand jobWhen a girl strokes a guys penis until he cums. It's basically masturbation done by someone else for a person.
high heels & lingerieDressing: High heels & lingerie
KamasutraKamasutra
KinkyA kink is a sexual taste.
KissingKissing
Lesbian showJust escort (escorts) will show you lesbian show, lesbian games. It's not that girls are 100% lesbian,in escort that means that if you book 2 girls they will or can play lesbian games.
MassageSensual,relax massage with oil or without. Just for relax. In escort can be not pro massage.
MasturbationMasturbation
MILFMother I'd Like to Fuck. MILF is usually used in the porn industry, the meaning of this word is "mother I like to fuck". Mature pornstars and mature escorts are often called MILFs.
MistressA woman who has a continuing sexual relationship with a man who is married to someone else.
Nuru massageNuru massage is an erotic massage that originated in Japan. It is best done nude and with a lot of oil. Often ends up with the participants having sex - happy ending.
Outdoor SexOutdoor Sex
OWOOral WithOut a condom where the escort girl gives a blowjob or sucking without condom.
Payed skype sessionsEscort which allow you to what her via skype. She will show you all what you asked but ofc not for free.
PhotoPartner allow to make a photo of her/him.
Prostate MassageProstate Massage
PSEPorn Star Experience. Many clients like to order escort girls that are porn stars as well, to get a professional sexual service as they think (and it's often true) that porn star girls are far the best lovers in the bed.
Role PlayWhen you act out one of your sexual fantasies using characters ie. Dentist, teacher etc. "Let's play doctors and nurses!"
Sexy ShowerShower together or allow to look at paretner in shower.
Slave softSlave soft
SpankingSpanking
Spanking (give)Spanking (give)
SquirtWhen a girl shoots cum from her pussy. Female ejaculation.
StraponStrap On is a dildo that is used by women. It has a device so it can be "straped" on. Mainly used for lesbian sex or also can be used by women to give pleasure to male or female partners.
StripteaseStriptease is an erotic or exotic dance in which the performer gradually undresses, either partly or completely, in a seductive and sexually suggestive manner. Escort girl can do PRO striptease for you.
SubmissiveSubmissive enjoys to be dominated
SwallowBlow Job to Completion with Swallowing. When a woman gives a blowjob to another man and then swallows the cum.
Swedish MassageEssentially same as the handjob.
SwingersSwinger is a person who have sex with multiple people at the same time.
Tantric MassageTantric massage is a method of bodywork that engages your entire physique, encompassing even your private zones. The objective is to stimulate your sensual energy, enhance the bond with your partner, and heighten the awareness of your body's responses to sexual pleasure.
Tantric SexTantric sex is a sexual practice intended to foster mindfulness and profound intimacy among participants. This is accomplished through techniques such as controlled breathing, sustained eye contact, holding each other close, sensual massage, and measured, intentional lovemaking.
Tie and TeaseTie and Tease
ToysToys are an often used phrase in the escort world, escorts with this service like to play with dildos and other sexual accessories.
TramplingTrampling
VideoVideo means in escort industry that allow client to make a video with escort girl.
WhippingWhipping
 
 
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Update: Due to other commitments limiting my time I need to safeguard against cancellations, because of this a deposit may be required to secure, even if I have seen you several times previously.

​I screen all potential clients for safety and compatibility. I am very careful about who I spend time with, as I would hope you are too. I only consider thoughtful, courteous enquiries with the all the requested information provided.
If I am visiting your hotel, please give me the name the room is booked under and room number when you have checked in. I will need to ring reception and ask to be put through to the room using this name in order to confirm your booking (so I will need your real name). Outcalls to a private residence will require additional screening. This goes for Air bnb/serviced apartments too. There are various ways to do this. Contact me for further information.

​Please confirm on the morning of the booking by email/text (or let me know the night before if it is an AM meeting).

​Regarding cancellations. I understand sometimes things happen but I have a very full schedule due to my personal career. This is a very part time endeavour for me, organising my monthly schedule and finding time for everyone and everything is a nightmare. Because of this I always reserve the right to request a 20% deposit to secure a booking.

​If for some unavoidable reason I need to cancel, I will refund any deposit in full and will make you first priority with regards to my time if you would like to rearrange, or I can help you find another provider. If I cancel without 72 hours notice I will add extra time to our next meeting.

When contacting an escort, it is a good idea to provide some information about you. A polite introduction is very helpful as part of getting through any decent screening process from a quality escort.

Be polite and respectful at all times; in person, on the phone and in emails. The only exception to this can be if you have agreed in advance with an escort a scenario where you want to play a specific role.

Make sure you understand what the escort offers. If you have any requirements which are not specifically offered, they are probably not offered. In any case, you should ask in advance of the appointment. If the escort has a page on her website where she details any specific policies, read it and respect them. During the appointment, you do need to make sure you communicate what you want - otherwise you may end up disappointed!

Be discreet. If you are going to a private residence, ask for instructions on how to get in. Don’t use the escort's name when calling an intercom, announce yourself only. In hotels, do not ask concierges or other staff anything about the escort. If there is a problem or you need to ask a question, go back to your car or leave the hotel and call on the phone. Don’t call an escort from a hotel lobby, in the street outside her flat or any other situation which might put her (and your) privacy at risk.

If you have any allergies: animals, scents, etc - make sure you tell the escort. If you have an aversion to tobacco smoke or smokers you probably want to check that too.

If the escort is visiting your home or hotel room, ensuring it is clean and tidy is a good way to start an appointment.

Don’t ask about an escorts personal life or her professional activities, if she volunteers information, fine. Use common sense. In the same way, change the subject if you are asked questions you are not prepared to answer. It is also best to avoid discussing other escorts as this type of gossip can have unpleasant results.

Donations

In most cases you will be expected to provide your donation at the start of the appointment. It is not normal to get a request to wire or send money in advance, so be suspicious if this is asked for.

Don’t try to negotiate the amount of the donation on arrival, in this case you should expect to be asked to leave. Assume rates are non-negotiable unless there is good reason to assume otherwise and you negotiate in advance. If you are extending the period, you can politely discuss how much more you should donate but don’t automatically assume you will be offered a discount.

Respect the time period you have booked. Most professional escorts do not like to have to ask you to leave and many will not ‘watch the clock’. However, you are ‘buying time’ and shouldn’t expect anything for free so respect what you agreed in advance.

If you have to cancel an appointment, do so as far in advance as possible. If you changed your mind, just tell the escort - it does happen. Don’t make appointments and then not turn up as this is just rude.

Don’t make promises you are not going to keep, whether it is for a future appointment, gift or review. You don’t owe the escort anything more than the donation and there’s no need to promise anything else. Better to be straightforward.

Personal hygiene

You should approach visiting an escort in the same way you would for going on a date. Here’s a list of tips compiled from talking to a number of professionals:

  • Take a shower before the appointment or at the start of the appointment.
  • Trim your nails and toenails; no-one likes getting scratched.
  • Trimming or shaving any areas you might want licked or kissed, as this shows that you might like this to happen. Leaving areas hairy may well act as a signal that you don’t expect this.
  • Don’t use cologne, deodorant or perfume on any area that you might expect to be licked or sucked.
  • Mouthwash or chewing gum is often appreciated, as is staying away from strongly smelling foods, such as garlic, onions or curry.
  • Don't piss in the shower (apparently this happens a lot and is really not appreciated by many professionals).
  • If you need to take a shit, do it before you get there - leaving a bad smell or worse is not a great way to start or end a session. You are visiting what is a place or residence or work (or both), treat it respectfully.

Sexual Health

Unprotected sex with an escort is a very stupid idea. If you are still feeling dumb, don't ask for it unless an escort explicitly offers the service.

Don’t brush your teeth within 30 minutes of the start of an appointment. Small abrasions on the gums and mouth can increase the risks from STDs.

Shave any genital areas the day before any appointment, small nicks and cuts are common and this is again a risk-factor for STDs.

Bring condoms with you just in case and these should be in a sealed, unopened box. Normally, an escort will provide these and expect you to use hers/his. If you have any specific requirements or allergies, you might want to clear this in advance.

Staying out of trouble

Make sure you are aware of the law regarding prostitution wherever you are. You then need to try and find out how it is enforced. The oldest profession in the world had survived pretty much every legal attempt to prohibit it, but this doesn’t mean you can’t get in trouble for kerb-crawling in some places.

Keep an eye on your wallet, phone and other valuables. Thefts do happen, especially in countries where it is pretty sure you are not going to be making a police report.

If you arrive at a place and you are in any way worried about your physical security or see any danger signs, leave immediately.

Common sense - use it!

Don't do stupid things or expect others to do so:

  • If you are not sure you should be doing this or thinking about this, don't do it.
  • Always treat providers like human beings (they are and never forget that)
  • Make sure you know local laws and don't get arrested
  • Don't do anything which feels uncomfortable - if you feel uncomfortable or in danger, leave immediately